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Abuse

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Bullying & Intimidation

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Abuse

Abuse is not an easy topic to address. Mostly because abuse comes in many shapes, sizes, and forms. Abuse is the improper use of power by one person to the detriment of another. Abuse can occur anywhere. These different forms of abuse frequently occur together and they are often hidden within a family. Child abuse must be reported in the county of which the abuse occurred. Call the county social services in your community to find out the phone number for another county.

In general, there are six forms of abuse. Verbal abuse involves shouting, rage, put downs, comparisons with previous spouse/s. Social abuse involves isolation from friends, confining to house, smothering, and constant telephoning to check up on another. Economic abuse involves keeping a spouse poor so that he/she has to ask for essentials. The abuser keeps total control of finances. Physical abuse involves striking, punching, pushing, shoving, throwing objects, smashing precious collections. When physical abuse occurs between couples it is commonly referred to as domestic violence. Spiritual abuse involves selective use of scriptures. For example, "Wives be submissive to your husbands" without regard to its context, namely, "Submit yourselves to one another" and "husbands love your wives…" The last form of abuse is Sexual abuse. Please see the link below to learn more about sexual assault.

Domestic Violence is a pattern of coercive and violent behavior used to threaten, frighten, injure or control another person. This includes emotional abuse as well as physical abuse. Intimidation is often a huge piece of domestic violence. A partner may make you afraid by using looks, actions, gestures, loud voice, and smashing things.

Sexual assault involves forced sexual touch and hurting, forcing unwanted forms of sex, and rape. When sexual abuse occurs within dating or romantic context it is often referred to as date rape or sexual assault. Unwanted sexual contact between a dating couple or married couple (same or opposite gender) is still considered sexual assault. If penetration occurs, it is considered rape.

Bullying and Intimidation involves making someone feel small, afraid and powerless.

Local Resources

North Shore Horizons: Lake County
Crisis and office: 218-834-5924
Or 800-834-5923

Violence Prevention Center: Cook County
Crisis: 218-387-1237
Office: 218-387-1262

Regional Resources

American Indian Community Housing Association: Duluth, MN
218-722-7225

Dabinoo'Igan Shelter: Duluth, MN
218-722-2247

Domestic Abuse Intervention Project (DAIP) Visitation Center: Duluth, MN
218-722-2781

First Witness Child Abuse Resource Center: Duluth, MN
218-727-8353

Life House (Harbor House program): Duluth, MN
218-722-7032

Program for the Aid to Victims of Sexual Assault: Duluth, MN
218-726-1442
Crisis: 866-229-7425
www.pavsa.org

Safe Haven Shelter for Battered Women: Duluth, MN
218-728-6481
Crisis: 877-880-3093
www.safehavenshelter.org/index1.htm

Women's Legal Action (Building for Women): Duluth, MN
218-720-5818

Women's Transitional Housing: Duluth, MN
218-728-6437

State Resources

Minnesota Center Against Violence & Abuse
www.mincava.umn.edu

Minnesota Coalition Against Sexual Assault
www.mncasa.org

National Resources

National Center on Domestic & Sexual Violence
www.ncdsv.org/publications_wheel.html

National Coalition Against Domestic Violence
www.ncadv.org

Office on Violence Against Women
www.ojp.usdoj.gov/vawo

Partnership Against Violence Network
www.pavnet.org

The Broken Spirits Network
www.brokenspirits.com

 

Disclaimer: Listing of resources and websites is for informational purposes only. Inclusion does not indicate endorsement of any resources or website.

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